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End of Life Planning – Your Funeral, Your Way

The best funerals are those that are planned in advance, giving you or your loved ones peace of mind during a difficult time. By taking the time to document your funeral wishes, you ensure that your final moments are a reflection of your personality, beliefs, and desires. Whether you know your end of life is imminent or simply want to organise your arrangements in advance, we are here to help you navigate the process with sensitivity, care, and respect.

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Why Plan Ahead?

Planning your funeral may not be something you want to think about right now, but there are many benefits to putting your wishes in place. When you plan ahead, you can ensure that everything is taken care of according to your wishes, sparing your loved ones from having to make difficult decisions at an emotional time.

Additionally, pre-planning your funeral can help relieve the financial burden on your family, and make the process easier by clearly outlining your preferences. From the type of service to specific music or personal touches, your plan can reflect everything that matters most to you.

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What to Include in Your Funeral Wishes

When planning your funeral, there are several key aspects to consider. Below, we outline the areas to cover in your funeral wishes, ensuring that nothing is overlooked.

1. Type of Service

The first decision is the type of service you'd like. There are many options to choose from, including:

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Traditional Burial

A formal service, often held in a church or chapel, followed by a burial.

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Cremation

The deceased is cremated, with or without a formal service beforehand.

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Direct Cremation

A simple, unattended cremation, followed by a memorial service at a later date.

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Eco-Friendly or Green Burial

A more natural burial without chemicals or embalming, using biodegradable materials.

Specify if you prefer a religious service or a secular one, and whether there are any specific rituals or prayers you'd like included.

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2. Music Choices

Music is an important part of any funeral, and selecting the right pieces can help celebrate your life. You can choose music that reflects your personality or significant moments from your life. Some options to consider:

  • Hymns: (for religious services)
  • Favourite Songs: (e.g., classic music, contemporary songs)
  • Instrumental Music: (e.g., a particular piece of classical music)

Be sure to list the titles and artists to avoid any confusion later. You may also want to note where you’d like the music played during the service—whether at the start, during certain moments (like the committal), or at the end.

3. Clothing and Personal Appearance

How would you like to be dressed for your funeral? This could be a traditional suit, a more casual outfit, or perhaps your favourite dress or attire that reflects your personality. Here are a few ideas:

  • Formal Wear: Suit or dress that you'd typically wear for special occasions.
  • Casual Wear: Something comfortable, like a favourite sweater or casual outfit.
  • Personal Touches: Include any accessories such as a specific necklace, watch, or scarf.

It’s also important to specify if you'd like to be buried in any specific items, such as your glasses or personal mementos.

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4. Vehicles and Transportation

Choose the type of funeral transport you’d prefer. You can request a traditional hearse, or opt for something more personal. Some options include:

Traditional Hearse

Typically a black vehicle or a family car, depending on your preference.

Specialty Vehicles

Such as a vintage car, Jaguar hearse, or horse-drawn carriage.

Family Cars

Consider if you’d like family members to ride in vehicles like limousines or classic cars, and how many should be needed.

If you have any preferences, such as driving past places that were important to you during the funeral procession, make sure to include them.

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5. Tribute & Memorial Notes

Personalise your funeral service with a tribute or eulogy. You can write notes for the officiant, family members, or friends to share, or list special people to deliver speeches. You may also want to include:

  • Who Should Give a Eulogy: Specify if there are people you would like to speak at your service.
  • Personal Messages: A final note or a message to be read aloud.
  • Special Tributes: Whether you’d like flowers, photographs, or other meaningful tributes included in the service.

6. Special Requests

Don’t forget to include any other personal requests that would help create a more meaningful funeral. Here are a few ideas:

  • Floral Tributes: If there are specific types of flowers or arrangements that should be included, or a preference for donations to a chosen charity in lieu of flowers.
  • Favourite Readings or Poems: Whether it’s a favourite poem, reading, or scripture, make sure to list it.
  • Memorial Gifts or Keepsakes: Whether you'd like something special given to family members to remember you by.
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7. Funeral Wishes Form

We offer an easy-to-complete funeral wishes form that will allow you to document all your preferences. By completing this form, you can rest assured knowing that your wishes will be respected when the time comes. You can update this form as needed, and the best part is that it’s completely confidential and free to complete.

You can download the Funeral Wishes Form here or contact us for assistance in completing it.

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Benefits of Recording Your Funeral Wishes

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Peace of Mind

By specifying your wishes, you make it easier for your loved ones, and ensure everything is handled in a way you’d want.

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Clear Decisions

No one needs to make difficult decisions on your behalf when the time comes.

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Personal Touch

Your funeral can truly reflect your personality and values, ensuring it’s as unique as you are.

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No Financial Burden

Avoiding the need for last-minute decisions can help reduce the financial burden on your loved ones.

We’re Here to Help

If you’re ready to document your funeral wishes or have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact us. At Farewells Funerals, we are here to guide you through the process with respect, compassion, and care.

You can download the Funeral Wishes Form from our website or reach out to us for assistance in completing your arrangements.

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